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Text Your Ex Back - Here's Five Tips To Help You Reconnect Through Text Messages
It's easy to be at a loss for words when you first try to text your ex back after a separation . You persuade yourself to pull out your cell phone and begin inputting that 1st text, but there's always that voice in your head that tends to make you question whether or not you are performing the correct thing.
A thousand questions start to swirl around in the synapses of your brain. Ideas such as:
1. Could transmitting the wrong text cause my ex to never want to see me again?
2. Do I need to apologize for the things I did wrong in the relationship?
3. How am I going to respond if they write me back?
4. Am I going to be all the more sad and disheartened if I send a text and my ex doesn't write back?
5. Am I giving in too readily by texting them? Should I force them to miss me more?
6. I don't want to come across as desperate or clingy. How can I formulate a text message that won't make me come across like that?
And your brain continues to formulate doubt after doubt...
You start to feel anxious and heartbroken. You begin to feel like you'll never comprehend what to say to get your ex to take you back. You feel lonely and paralyzed.
What you feel are the same sensations many people experience after a breakup. It's common. It's ok. Right now I'm going to discuss some recommendations with you about sending those all important first texts to help you get your ex back.
Before you try to text your ex back after a break up, there are a few crucial things you'll want to be aware of. Your very first texts will be extremely important.
Your texts can help you reconnect with your ex or they can make your ex run for the hills...and never return.
Here are 5 ideas to keep in mind prior to transmitting that all important 1st text to your ex:
1. A span of no contact is often a excellent idea.
Give yourself a span of no contact (3-4 weeks is preferred). Try to use this time to decide exactly what you want from your relationship with your ex. Do you actually want them back? Are you able to forgive yourself and forgive them for any mistakes that have been made? It's very important to have clear goals on your mind.
2. Now isn't the moment to talk about the previous relationship.
Your first messages need to have a positive tone. The truth is, your past relationship doesn't exist anymore. You need to try and open your ex to the thought of being in a new, more amazing relationship with you.
3. Avoid begging and apologizing frequently.
Begging and pleading with your ex to take you back shows you have very little confidence. This puts your ex in the position to call all the shots.
4. You don't NEED a text message in return.
If you don't get a response to your first few texts, it's not a big surprise so don't worry about it. If you receive a response, great. If you don't, there's no need to stress. Your first few texts shouldn't demand any response from your ex.
5. Have a clear target in mind for each and every text you send.
Every text you send your ex should have a purpose. In his ebook Text Your Ex Back, Michael Fiore explains "nothing texts" and why you should avoid them. Keep reading to discover more about what these are.
Becoming Familiar With What Michael Fiore Refers To As Nothing Texts
As Michael explains, a nothing text is" ... a text that doesn't actually SAY anything and doesn't leave any "hooks" for positive interaction." These are texts such as "Yo" or "How's it going?" (you may already be guilty of sending these).
If being able to text your ex back is something that appeals to you, then keep the above strategies at heart and you'll have a much better likelihood of getting another chance with your ex.